How can you ensure that you are truly receiving the most honest and accurate reading? We often tend to believe that this is not something a seeker can have control or involvement over.

Well, the truth is you can! There are several things you can keep in mind to ensure this is what you will receive in your reading.

Much depends on whom you choose as your reader, yes, but even in that matter, it will make a big difference to ensure you consult with experienced readers who have worked for several years or who have enough track record within a reputable company specializing in spirituality, psychic readings, and tarot.

Another obvious way is to check if the reader has regular clients and review their opinions. A reliable and honest reader will have recurring clients and generally good ratings. There can always be a one or three-star rating, etc., as some clients, unfortunately, come to the reading too upset or vulnerable, not ready for the truth, or disappointed with the results. A 100% perfect connection with each reader cannot always be established in the same way or at the same time. However, good ratings should far outweigh the bad ones.

There are, however, several important things to keep in mind when considering getting a reading, particularly a love reading, if you wish to obtain an honest and accurate reading with the highest likelihood of accuracy.

An important factor has already been slightly mentioned: avoid the temptation to have a reading hastily, with tears in your eyes, right after being hurt by a romantic disappointment. At that moment, your emotions are more vulnerable, and your mind is not as clear to use your time wisely and ask the important questions you might need to ask. Emotional vulnerability can lead you to misinterpret or overreact during the reading, which would prevent you from having a clear enough head to formulate additional questions at that time.

A great advantage in readings is being able to reread the transcripts later, something we have access to here on this site. But you will want to have your questions and doubts clear at the time of the reading to maximize your investment.

Finally, and leaving the most important point about what to do and, in this case, what “NOT to do” to favor an honest reading, I would like to add the following advice:

It is crucial to have an open and expectant mind to the answers or comments that will be given to us during the reading, despite obviously having some favorite or preferred answers to our questions, especially when asking if a particular person has similar feelings or thoughts to ours, if there is potential in a certain relationship or friendship for a romantic future, and so on.

Sometimes, the answers or messages that guides, angels, or the spirit convey to the psychic or medium during your reading are unexpected and even surprise the reader, and their causes or effects may not be evident or shown to the seeker until later.

Other times, the seeker will respond with satisfaction for the warning in moments of doubt or even be glad to have seen their suspicions and intuitions confirmed, whether good or bad. But, in any case, it is very important that, in our eagerness to find happiness and success in life, we do not attack the reader with tricky questions or plunge into a reading that generates confusion, doubts, and apprehension for both the reader and the seeker, as both try to answer the question in the most compassionate, honest, and constructive way possible, offering not only the truth but also alternatives to improve your life and near future, especially if these are spontaneously given by the guides and angels.

For example, if you are firing questions every two seconds like: 'Does he love me and think I am the woman for him? And is it true that he doesn't miss his ex-wife who drove him crazy and stole all his money, right? He told me so and it's true because blah blah blah... AND HOW LONG IS IT UNTIL he proposes to me and we are happy after getting married and having two children?' without even having a close vision of the future or the possibility of marriage or that there will be children even if this is to happen with the person you are asking about and who you just met yesterday... it would not be the best way to allow time and space for the angels to give you useful messages and advice, nor for the reader to offer you the most concrete answers to questions that can be answered more accurately on a case-by-case basis.

If you only need inspiration to have faith in a beautiful image that activates positive thinking and lifts your spirits, maybe that is what you want, but... is this really what you need?

A lot of wishful thinking resulting in false hope can be the outcome of such a scenario, and I find this a dangerous path for both the psychic and the consultant, which could later turn into anger and broken dreams, blaming the reader for not delivering the 'fairy tale' they came to the reading with.

In summary, guiding the answers during a reading is a form of self-sabotage of the truth and of the help from the start, which prevents you from truly hearing the possible answers that could have helped you much more in your present situation or problem, place, and circumstances."